Cluster Fudge!

Today was a normal day at work. I got along with Anne, and it seems that my husband can sense these things, because he asked me if I was talking to her again, and I didn't know how to answer him. I work with her... I HAVE to talk to her. I don't have to talk to her about anything personal, but she knows me and she knows when I feel like something is wrong. She is a force of nature to be reckoned with and she can be heard, not in a bad way, but she can get me to talk and forget and be nice and share my story...so I did. And she gave me advice as usual. Not good advice for my husband, and he didn't like what I had to say, so he said that I would get hurt if I keep talking to her and she said that he needs to get over whatever he had in his head because she DID NOT like him like he says and she will not loose me over that. She told me to tell him that he had to deal with her being my friend because she wasn't going anywhere and that if she ever sees him, she will slap him. Of course I didn't say that, I just want all the drama to end. I want to live life and move forward and I keep getting stuck. He has good points, she has good points, and I have no motivation to hear either one of them out. I don't know who the liar is and I don't know who to trust. I am just giving my husband the chance and talking to her once in a while.... But this will spin out of control and I will get screwed. I always get screwed. I just want to be happy and with him I have to work at it. With her she makes me happy and then I find out I have been betrayed when I find out they are talking. I just don't freakin know anymore!!!